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On Unfair Comparisons and Understanding the Purpose of School "The best students in school don’t get compensated well." Says who? Some argue that it's unfair for a first-class graduate to receive only a token for their academic excellence, while entertainers and athletes walk away with massive financial rewards. But is that really a fair comparison? I don’t think so. School was never designed as a money-making venture. It was created for learning, knowledge acquisition, and intellectual growth. The reward for excelling in academics is not immediate financial gain but greater opportunities for further study, research, and intellectual exposure. Understanding this simple truth helps to avoid unnecessary comparisons that diminish the true value of education. Education’s Unique Rewards Tertiary institutions are unique because they gather learned minds in one place—something no other industry or profession can claim. In these institutions, knowledge flows like water, and those...

Who  Is Truly Good? When a man once called Jesus "Good Master," his response was striking: "No one is good—except God alone." At first glance, this might seem like humility or self-deprecation, but in reality, it was a profound truth. In human terms, being "good" often comes with a heavy burden. A good man is expected to sacrifice his time, possessions, and even his life for the sake of others. Yet, ironically, those who benefit from such sacrifices rarely call themselves "good"—their focus is on securing their own happiness and survival. So, does that mean a good man lives for others while an evil man lives for himself? The term evil might sound extreme, but self-preservation is, after all, the default setting of human nature. True goodness, then, is not merely about external actions but the spirit that governs a person. Even Jesus, the ultimate spiritual figure, refused to accept the label of good man. Adam, the first man, was supposedly good—u...

  No Be By Mouth: The Journey to True Greatness—From Big Man Dreams to Fixing Our Football The “Big Man” Mindset: A Reality Check If you're in the middle or lower class, don’t let anyone call you a "big man"—and certainly don’t act like one. Wearing that tag prematurely will only make you a target for freeloaders who contribute nothing to your growth. Aspiring to be a big man is a noble goal, but true greatness must have a philanthropic purpose. It’s that purpose that will sustain you when challenges come knocking—because in the world of the big men, challenges aren’t just big, they are relentless. Every class has its struggles. The lower and middle classes face challenges that often pull them down, preventing upward movement. These very challenges, however, must be conquered to truly become a big man. Once you break through, bigger opportunities, bigger realities, and bigger rewards will follow. In the world of big men, success isn’t just about wealth—it’s about fulfilli...

The Reality of Aid and Self-Sufficiency : The U.S. and its Scrutiny of Foreign Aid Recently, the United States has placed its foreign aid under intense scrutiny, with reports suggesting that some of these aids have been suspended. For many developing nations, including Nigeria, these funds—no matter the amount—have played a crucial role in economic stability and poverty alleviation. To put things in perspective, if every Nigerian received just $1 a day for food, millions would immediately rise above the poverty line. In Nigeria today, where a single U.S. dollar is worth over ₦1,800, even the smallest aid carries significant weight. So, while the idea of self-sustainability is commendable, the reality is that external support remains a lifeline for many. Can Nigerians Truly Help Themselves? This situation raises an important question: How many Nigerians can truly sustain themselves without external help? The harsh truth is that most Nigerians have, at some point, relied on parents, guar...

Beyond Limits: The Power of Establishment and Purpose Seeing Beyond the Present Prescience—the ability to see beyond the present—is often considered an almost supernatural trait, yet it is simply a refined sense of vision. How a person sees themselves defines how they see the world, and ultimately, how they prepare for the future. One can either be an optimist, embracing the possibilities ahead, or a pessimist, dreading what is to come. If a person envisions themselves at a certain place in five years, that vision becomes the vehicle that transports them there. The fuel for this journey includes attitude, determination, and continuous progress. However, the way one sees themselves also shapes their relationship with the world around them. Establishment and Purpose: Anchors of Growth Establishment is akin to planting one’s feet firmly in the soil of a nation—whether as a business owner, a foundation leader, or a changemaker. Yet, purpose serves as the anchor for establishment. Without a...

Forbes, Billionaires, and the Nigerian Zoo: Wealth, Power, and Survival You've probably heard people say, "The world's richest aren’t on Forbes." That statement, as catchy as it sounds, is a bit of a stretch. Anyone can claim to be wealthy while keeping their fortune locked up in their imagination. By that logic, I'm a billionaire too—just that my riches are safely stored in my mind, beyond Forbes' ability to measure. The truth is, there’s nothing shameful about having your wealth recognized. In fact, most wealthy individuals secretly (or not-so-secretly) want to see their names on the Forbes list—even those with questionable sources of income. Politics, for instance, is a magnet for all sorts of money, legal or illegal, and that's because politics brings visibility and influence. If people involved in shady dealings still pursue politics for exposure, why would anyone shy away from being on Forbes—unless their money is so deeply buried in the mud that eve...