We give what we have

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Remember, Everyone gives what he has!

If someone hurts you in any way by expressions of negative emotions directed towards you, you feel vexed and saddened, the impulse to retaliate comes up - it takes an extra grace to remain unoffended - and it's likely one acts on such impulse.

We all give what we have!

If one gives hurts, he is full of hurts himself and doesn't need more hurts (resulting from retaliation), he wants and desires to be liberated from the sufferings attached to these hurts. Only love cures hurts.

Yet it takes special grace to forgive!

We are humans afterall and when our emotions are provoked, we tend to react! reacting doesn't solve the issue, it only magnifies it that's why returning love for hate (though hard) is the true way.
Reacting and retaliation gives the appearance that it will soothe your pain but after one indeed follows such impulse to retaliate, then the pains never soothe but boomerangs!

Better to suffer hurts for a little while and be happy thereafter than be soothed by retaliation now and remain unhappy for a long while.

Reply hate with love wins always.
We all give what we have!

How to attain such grace to give love for hate even when one has never gotten loved before?

It's by getting in touch with one's true spiritual nature.

Every great person and country on earth are self-aware and self-awareness is birthed from spirituality.

Spirituality opens you up to the truth that people, things or animals are not one's enemies or friends, only one's mindsets and thoughts pattern color people, things or animals as enemies or friends.
Our mindsets shape how we view the world, to change people and the world around us simply means we have to change how we view them.

We can project love or hate unto people but both love and hate are one's ways of looking at the world - it's in how you see the world!
This is a great truth that spirituality unveils - that getting a mastery of yourself will make you a master on earth.

Whatever you ask for and seek, you will get.
Ask for spirituality and oneness with your true nature and you will find it.

When we thus attain bliss from spirituality, then we realise that happiness is not to be found in outer luxuries and pleasures but within us.


Spirituality will open up plentiful avenues to enjoy  luxuries, marriages,  homes and families to the fullest.
Chasing luxuries, marriage and love will not keep one fulfilled since the main ingredient - spirituality - isn't present yet.

This reality is the difference between progression and retrogression.
The difference between development and underdevelopment.
The difference between happiness and troubles.
The difference between life and death.

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